They say that love overcomes hate and not hatred that overcomes hate. So I ask you, do you want to hate or do you wanna love?
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When you fall for someone, the natural tendency is to rate them perfect(for example 25 is perfect). We have the natural tendency to not see the flaws in a person and so we just proceed with the idea that he/she is perfect. But then you start realizing them. One after another comes out, and you start deducting his/her "points". And then you realize that there is no more points left to deduct, and so you you stay away from them and you repeat the whole cycle again to another person.
how tragic is this. Why are humans this way? Shouldn't we start from 1 and work our way up to 25? Why can't we just do a lil more research and take a bit of our time to just understand that person? That is one reason why best friend of the opposite sex tend to fall for each other. They never realize that they were counting the bottom way up. That is why some of their relationships work for a long time.
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Life is like a piece of paper. Our actions are like pens. And life time chances are like flipping to a new page even though the current one is not done. Every step you take is written down. You can't erase them, nor can you forget them. But sometimes you get life changing chances. Where you get to flip to a new page without continuing the previous one and you get to start on a whole new page. See, life is continuous. You don't get to suddenly stop it, you don't get to suddenly pause it. And the end of your life is like the end of the book. You can't continue it cause there is no pages left for you to write. Coming back to the life changing chances. There times where your doing something, could be anything(nothing in particular), and then you realize that what your doing now is gonna make you regret in the future. Its like your writing down on your book of life. You come to a point where you feel that you have wrote something wrongly and you wanna start a new. But how are you gonna start a new when you are already half way writing about something else? Lets just give an example.
You hate this person. No liking at all. And at that point, you were so certain that you were not gonna like him\her at any point in the future. You stress on how much you hated that person, and you tell most of the people around you that you hated that person so much that everything he\she does is annoying. So your writing down in your book of life, saying (I hate that person. Why do you always annoy me. Get a life puhlease.) So the writing continues. And then one day you find out, "hey, your actually kinda nice. All that I have thought was wrong. What used to be annoying is now charming". And you wanna start a new. But how are you gonna do that when your continuously writing it down? Maybe friends around you has never told him\her that you hated them. And there was no way for that person finding out that you hated them. So there you go. A new page has been flipped, and your now writing on how much you adore him\her. Your cherishing every moment with him\her. And he\she doesn't know you hated them. So that is a new page, not the same old page your continuing on. So treasure it.
But there are somethings that you can't start a new. Like people's opinion on you. Their perspective, their view, their own book of life. Now that's another story=). Stay tuned to find out more..hahaha
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Today's value : To forgive, we must let go of the past. To forgive, we must transform hate to love. To forgive, makes you more superior, makes you the matured one. Makes you the wiser one.
