can you describe to me what defines love? Is it love, when you get close to someone and grow feelings for them, and somehow down the line, you stop loving them because of some misunderstanding? Or is that admiring, like, look up to, appreciate?
How do you know what is love just by feelings? If someone doesn't read about engineering, did not do any research on it, and suddenly declares to himself that he knows what engineering is all about because he had a feeling that he does. Does that actually makes him knowledgeable about engineering? If we have read about it, know what the actually meaning to it, then only can we say that we know what it is. What if one day, after reading about love, you found out that love wasn't the right word to say to a boyfriend/girlfriend, would you then go to them and say "Opps, sorry, can I take back the world love and replace it with like? I like you?" or would you be so ashamed that you would not tell them and lie to him/her, or so called "protect" their feelings from the truth?
I now know that I wasn't knowledgeable enough to have used the word love, merely because at that time I was so drawn to feelings and affections, but I should have taken the time to have studied about what that word is. Have you ever thought to yourself whether love requires experience and understanding before saying it? So as for now, I will only say things that I have experience on(which I think there is very little)before saying.
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Today's value : Do not believe in anything (simply) because you have heard it.